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Profiles are performances. Listening history isn't. With your permission we read the shape of your taste, not the contents of your life, and distill it into themes: what you're curious about, how deep you go, when you're awake, what you keep coming back to.
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There is no pool to browse and no deck to run down. Each week we solve one matching problem for your whole city at once, so nobody gets double-booked and nobody gets buried. When there's no strong match, we say so.
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When you both say yes, we propose three real plans: a place, a day, a time. You each pick, the first overlap books, calendar invites go out. Messaging is for running late. Talking is for the table.
What an introduction looks like
You both spent the spring inside Kate Bush's catalogue, and you've each shelved three Le Guin novels this year. Maya finishes what she starts; so do you. Neither of you plans weekends before Friday.
One city at a time. Tell us where you are and we'll write once, when yours opens.
How it works
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Phone and ID check. No unverified accounts. A small, honest pool is the whole point.
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Connect Spotify, Strava, Letterboxd, or a Goodreads shelf. Or upload an export from your AI assistant. Each source is optional and can be removed any time.
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We show you what a year of reading and listening seems to say about you: culturally curious, practice-oriented, deep-few over broad-many. You confirm, edit, or say "not me." Only what you confirm is ever used.
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Zero to three. A first name, two photos, a short narrative grounded in real overlap. Seventy-two hours to accept or pass. Passing is silent.
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Mutual yes means we book it: a quiet coffee shop, a wine bar, a walk, chosen for the midpoint and your stated vibe. Details shared the day before. A check-in after.
What we read. What we keep.
You share a file from Claude or ChatGPT. We never connect to your assistant, read conversations live, or keep watching. Titles and themes in; raw text out, within seven days.
Before anything is analyzed we drop health, money, legal matters, other people's names, anything intimate. What remains is a coarse map of interests. No one, human or machine, sees the rest.
Anything we infer about who you are is a hypothesis until you say so. Anything touching belief or spirituality stays quarantined until you explicitly turn it on.
No ads. No selling or sharing behavioral data.
Remove a source and its raw data is gone and your profile is rebuilt without it. Delete your account and everything is hard-deleted, keys destroyed, within thirty days.
This only works with enough of the right people in one place, so we open one city at a time. Yours goes first if enough of you ask.